Part 2: How Nonprofit Executives Use an Executive Coach, cont'd

In the first segment of the discussion on "How Nonprofit Executives Use an Executive Coach,"
I talked about my own experience of having a coach for most of the 30 years I was a nonprofit CEO.

I began the list of the most important benefits I received from coaching with #1: Sounding Board or "Hired Ear." The second and equally critical benefit I received was Personal and Professional Accountability. There's something magic about the act of making a commitment to another person, particularly when they are an intellectual match AND your are paying them! Unless you are very unique, you have experienced disappointment in yourself when you didn't keep a commitment you made to you. New Year's resolutions are the most obvious.

However, I believe that this process of what is essentially good intentions unfulfilled is like a progressive disease. After awhile, there is a self-fulfilling prophecy: when you intend to do something and know ahead of time that it probably won't happen, guess what? It doesn't happen!

When you make that commitment to your coach, including a specific date and reporting process, something gets triggered that makes you follow through. Whether it's guilt if you don't or embarrassment or whatever, your inclination is to keep the commitment. And when you make commitments week after month after year, it not only becomes a habit but you actually increase your productivity dramatically.

With the candid feedback of your coach, you also perform in a more self-aware and intentional manner. In other words, you reduce the unintended effects of language--both verbal and body--that can reduce or eliminate any hope of achieving your goals.

Coaching with a trained and experienced professional (see my bio: http://www.coachingjudynelson.com/,) is the best strategy I know to help a manager and aspiring leader to mature emotionally and professionally in a safe but challenging environment.

Of course there are other tools that can enhance this process. Next time I'll talk about a third coaching strategy that I found extremely helpful: the anonymous and confidential "360" or multi-rater assessment by colleagues, managers and direct reports. When interpreted by a trained coach and with mutually established goals, the impact can be astounding.

Much of what I am addressing is related to the concepts of "Emotionally-Intelligent Management." That is the title of my chapter in a new book entitled, "Leading the Way to Success." My co-authors include management guru, Warren Bennis and Jack Canfield of "Chicken Soup for the Soul" fame! To reserve your copy: Orders@CoachJudyNelson.com.

Best,

Judy

Judy Nelson, JD, MSW
Certified Professional Coach
http://www.coachjudynelson.com/
www.blogtalkradio.com/coachjudynelson